Below is a link to an informative article about utilizing validation in relationships. Validation is a skill therapists practice with clients everyday. It goes back to the old expression, I don't need you to fix it, just hear me. So many people feel profoundly unheard, misunderstood, and unvalued. When we validate another, we are creating a healing and bonding moment. Validation is likely a different approach than you may be accustomed to, as we often want to fix, suggest, play devil's advocate, but with a little practice validation can become a more effective way to share your life and experiences.
http://www.psychologyineverydaylife.net/2014/03/17/the-single-best-thing-you-can-do-for-your-relationship/
About the author: Melissa Hudson, PhD(c) is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Plano, Texas specializing in couples counseling, anxiety disorders, and depression. She also works with adults and families on a full spectrum of concerns. Have questions? Want to work on your relationship? Reach out! melissa@counselingsolutionstexas.com | 214-235-8175 | www.counselingsolutionstexas.com